
Mem Moment | People and Society
Parashat Ki Teitzei “When You Go Out”
Ki Teitzei is one of the Torah portions with the greatest number of commandments. This year, I’m paying particular attention to the laws that help people live together in society:
“You shall not see your fellow’s ox or sheep gone astray and ignore them; you shall surely return them to your fellow.” (Deuteronomy 22:1)
“When you build a new house, you shall make a parapet for your roof, so that you do not bring bloodguilt upon your house if someone falls from it.” (Deuteronomy 22:8)
“You shall not plow with an ox and a donkey together.” (Deuteronomy 22:10)
“When you enter your neighbor’s vineyard, you may eat as many grapes as you wish to satisfy your appetite, but you shall not put any intoyour basket.” (Deuteronomy 23:25)
At first glance, these commandments seem to have little in common. Yet they all teach the same lesson: life in society is built on paying attention to others, respecting their boundaries, and being willing to take responsibility.
The Torah calls on us not to ignore another person’s loss, to think about the safety of others before harm occurs, to avoid causing unnecessary suffering to animals, and even when something is permitted, to exercise restraint and respect what belongs to someone else.
To me, this message feels especially relevant today. Strong communities are built not only through major initiatives, but through the small choices we make every day, the conscious decisions each of us makes in every moment of our lives. Reading this week’s portion reminded me that Judaism is, at its core, a tradition of mindfulness and responsibility: noticing other people, thinking about the consequences of our actions, and recognizing that even the smallest choices shape the world around us. It is these everyday actions that ultimately build a healthy and caring society.
What is one small action you can take this week to make someone else’s life a little easier?
